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by ck on June 4, 2010

(Things that Made Me Happy this Week)

And I’ll be honest, I NEEDED a little forced happiness this week because it was, no lie, CRAZY. Not bad crazy, just hectic, all-over-the-place, fighting-to-catch-up crazy. Filled with “shoulds,” and “needs,” and internal compromises. The kind of crazy I figured fell out of a minivan packed with boys. But I don’t have a minivan…or boys.

Which meant that I needed to pull out my new favorite recipe to compensate. Friends, meet White Sangria. Note: my husband is a beer drinker, so that extra glass? It’s yours. Who’s in?

If you can’t make it to my house, you can make it at yours. You’ll love it. Trust.

3 bottles dry white wine  •  1/2 c Triple Sec or other orange liqueur  •  1 1/2 c no-pulp orange juice  •  1/4 c fresh lemon juice  •  6 tbsp sugar, or to taste  •  1 can of peaches, chopped  •  one apple, chopped  •  2 pt strawberries, sliced

That wasn’t the only recipe I picked up this week. I met a mom who changed the way I viewed wet park equipment. The only item needed to create this awesomeness: One diaper, size 5

This single diaper dried three slides, four swings, one of those weird bouncy-things, and a bench.

Not that I can afford to spare diapers these days, seeing as how TWO continues to decline potty training (“Um, I don’t tink-I-use-a potty, Mama. No tant-you.). She is VERY interested in her nether regions, however. The other day while in the bath she inspected herself in a way that would’ve made Charlotte York uncomfortable.

ME: You need to stop that, baby. You’re gonna hurt yourself.

TWO: Yeah. I no hurt-a-my-gina. (She spread out and pointed.) I no eat-a-that, right?

ME:

I love that TWO’s finally speaking, I do. But what I love the most is that she somehow maintained her quiet side. A clothed side. A side content to spend hours reflecting on what it means to be 2.5.

Speaking of clothes, did I mention that ONE recently changed professions? Meet our “Cam Jansen,” well-dressed detective for hire. Not only does she solve mysteries, she does it with slammin’ accessories and mini roses.

“Mama? Let me know if something’s ever lost. Because I’m a detective and flowers help me think.”

It’s a good things she’s a detective too, because you know what she’s NOT? A cheerleader. I mean, I’m not being sh*tty or anything, it’s just not her calling. Here’s her newest cheer: “L-E-T-S-G-I-T-Y-S-O-R, LET’S GO!”  Here’s to hoping that’s the closest we get to pom poms. And that she learns how to spell. Soon.

And mostly my week was crazy because rehearsals started for this:

I showed up, knowing only my husband and the director, and everyone else was a REAL performer. Normally I’d be overwhelmed and very intimidated.  But something about this was different. Relaxed. Fun. Our first read-through was met with laughter (real laughter too, not that fake, sympathy sh*t ), and great feedback. It was invigorating.

And sharing that with my man? Having something we can do together minus the kids?

Doesn’t get more !!! than that.

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Christine LaRocque June 4, 2010 at 7:30 am

Ahhhh, I wanted to do !!!! this week, I was all ready, had my photos taken and then last night when I needed to post life got away from with a whole bunch of the opposite of !!!!. Would tomorrow be too late? Hmmmm, I might still do it.

And that Sangria. I’m making it tonight! Yes, I’ll stop and get everything on the way home. Yummy. Let’s hope it goes straight to my head, then my !!!! will be really good.
.-= Christine LaRocque´s last blog ..Blogging: Conversations in happiness and more =-.

ck June 5, 2010 at 2:03 pm

It’s never too late to link a !!!.

(Or to drink that Sangria. In fact, the longer it sits in the fridge, the better it tastes.)

Futureblackmail June 4, 2010 at 7:35 am

My husband getting shitty with me, asking me where I “hid” his pants from the laundry room. It felt hilariously awesome to say “ummm…did you check your closet?” And then they, of course, were in the closet.

!!! – An “In Your Face” moment – shared with your husband.
.-= Futureblackmail´s last blog ..ART GALLERY =-.

Cranky Sarah June 4, 2010 at 1:03 pm

I hate it when my hubs makes comments like that! So, I’ll revel in your !!! on that one!
.-= Cranky Sarah´s last blog ..OOTW: What I wore on my anniversary =-.

ck June 5, 2010 at 2:04 pm

Ah, yes. The beauty of a good “In Your Face.”

(Of course being on the receiving end of a successful IYF is kinda ¡¡¡)

Corinne June 4, 2010 at 8:17 am

That is pure brilliance about the diaper!!! That made my day :)
.-= Corinne´s last blog ..On being a mommy, all. the. time. =-.

Kristen @ Motherese June 4, 2010 at 3:25 pm

And here I’ve been lugging a beach towel to the park all these years. Hooray for that wise mom and for you for sharing her genius!
.-= Kristen @ Motherese´s last blog ..Home and Away =-.

Jessica June 4, 2010 at 8:34 am

White Sangria is heavenly. I love it.
.-= Jessica´s last blog ..Replacement =-.

Aging Mommy June 4, 2010 at 8:53 am

Well we are in the midst of potty training – Day 4 to be precise. My daughter who was 3 in February was like yours, showed zero interest, telling me she only wore diapers etc but once preschool was done I decided it really was time to tackle this. I will say I think in some ways the later you leave it the better, because by the end of the day yesterday we had it cracked. So I am happy if a little exhausted and a few glasses of anything and a trip outside the home would be just wonderful right now :-) So successful potty training is definitely my !!! for this week!!!

ck June 5, 2010 at 2:05 pm

I’m so jealous of your !!!

magda June 10, 2010 at 11:25 pm

so envious!!! maybe some white sangria would help.
.-= magda´s last blog ..Mind-Numbing Days, I Mean Daze =-.

Gibby June 4, 2010 at 9:09 am

“flowers make me think.” I love it!!! Tell ONE flowers make me think, too.

My !!! ?
Having my MIL take the girls overnight on the first day of summer break and me spending that time shopping FOR ME. I never stepped into Children’s Place once. (OK, I did, but then I turned around and walked back out before I saw anything cute or on sale.) !!!
.-= Gibby´s last blog ..Friday Foto =-.

ck June 5, 2010 at 2:27 pm

That is so !!!, Gibby. I wish my family was close enough to take my girls over night.

Mrs.Mayhem June 4, 2010 at 9:16 am

Haven’t tried white sangria. Have you tried homemade mojitos?? They’re the best!! And all cold and slushy, like a slurpee.

I have no !!! this week. My week sucked.
.-= Mrs.Mayhem´s last blog ..Lovies =-.

ck June 5, 2010 at 2:31 pm

I hope you find many !!!s next week, Mrs. Mayhem. I always find that bad weeks are followed by good ones. Oh wait, that might just be my own brand of denial…

magda June 10, 2010 at 11:26 pm

i am right there with you. i wished the sucking were limited to this week.
.-= magda´s last blog ..Mind-Numbing Days, I Mean Daze =-.

The Mother June 4, 2010 at 9:25 am

Not a fan of fruity drinks. Unless you count margaritas (and anything other than classic lime is NOT a margarita, it’s a fruit drink with tequila).

I got carded buying one at Chili’s with my 19 yo son. Fancy that.
.-= The Mother´s last blog ..Mesmerizing Medicine =-.

ck June 5, 2010 at 2:28 pm

Man, I haven’t been carded in ages. I never would’ve thought being carded would = !!!, but it totally does.

magda June 10, 2010 at 11:28 pm

have you tried Absolut pairs-n-tonic? YUM. i think i will have one now. cheers.
.-= magda´s last blog ..Mind-Numbing Days, I Mean Daze =-.

magda June 10, 2010 at 11:32 pm

i meant Absolut Pear…duh!! Pairs (*)(*). mine of course look nothing like that, maybe the opposite in supple crepe paper consistency. so in love with myself right now. another cocktail please
.-= magda´s last blog ..Mind-Numbing Days, I Mean Daze =-.

Jen June 4, 2010 at 10:24 am

I gotta be honest, I had a week from hell…but yesterday I got to spend the day talking to a peer that mad me smile most of the day. Yay for friends!!!
.-= Jen´s last blog ..Floored *repeat post* =-.

ck June 5, 2010 at 2:32 pm

Having friends, good ones, who make you feel good despite crap weeks? A highly prized !!!

Ink June 4, 2010 at 11:36 am

“Um, I don’t tink-I-use-a potty, Mama. No tant-you.” LMAO! She sounds so elegantly Zsa Zsa Gabor there.

And hooray for the performances (and YES YOU ARE A REAL PERFORMER). Star star star star star!!!!

WackyMummy June 4, 2010 at 11:48 am

Those anecdotes about your daughter are so funny! Makes me wish I had a girl, especially “Can Jansen” and how roses make her think. !!! My boy… all he does is roar like a dino, and while I try to take it in stride, it’s getting old fast. I’m bored with it… beyond bored. I wear earplugs.

Happy weekend! I gotta get me some sangria!
.-= WackyMummy´s last blog ..My Best… =-.

Melissa June 4, 2010 at 12:56 pm

1) White Sangria: HELL YES PLEASE.
2) Two: I no eat-a-that… I’m DYING over here.
3) One is SO my eldest.
4) So very cool/cute you and Mike are doing that together. I’d love to work it out so I can come watch. Hmm…
.-= Melissa´s last blog ..It Was Better =-.

ck June 5, 2010 at 2:35 pm

#4 would be so, so !!!

Cranky Sarah June 4, 2010 at 1:01 pm

OK I’m making white sangira soon and it will be my contribution to my next book club.
The diaper tip is a great one!
So far, my girls are more interested in their parts than my son is, though not THAT interested HAHA! And I know the table will soon turn.
I love when they play imagination games like that.
Being in a play with your husband sounds like fun!
.-= Cranky Sarah´s last blog ..OOTW: What I wore on my anniversary =-.

Jenn M June 4, 2010 at 2:07 pm

That White Sangria really does look !!!

My !!! is my boys finally playing quietly together, after an hour running around biting, hitting, and screaming at each other. I shall savor this moment even after the ten seconds is over…
.-= Jenn M´s last blog ..Six Word Fridays: Message =-.

ck June 5, 2010 at 2:36 pm

No matter how many times it dissolves into chaos, those moments of quiet play, when they love on each other and share and make you look good = !!!

Allison @ Alli 'n Son June 4, 2010 at 2:50 pm

That recipe? Yum! I’m in.

And I thought that only boys were obsessed with their “favorite parts” as my son calls it. The eating question, hmmm, I would have been stumped too.

Time with your man, pure awesome.

My !!! was photographing for my friends last week. And the pics turned out awesome. Stop by to see them.
.-= Allison @ Alli ‘n Son´s last blog ..Photo Recap =-.

ck June 5, 2010 at 2:37 pm

Those photos really were !!!

Well done, Allison!

TheKitchenWitch June 4, 2010 at 4:00 pm

Oh my goodness about the “I no eat that!” Hilarious.

I’m so excited for your performance! You’ll knock ‘em dead!
.-= TheKitchenWitch´s last blog ..Ceviche for Miss Sunshine =-.

BigLittleWolf June 4, 2010 at 4:19 pm

The Charlotte York remark is too funny!

My !!! was just getting the hell out of the house yesterday afternoon. Wandering. Flirting. I forgot how great that is, in and of itself.
.-= BigLittleWolf´s last blog ..Chicken =-.

ck June 5, 2010 at 2:39 pm

Wow – I forget how great that is too. !!! for you for remembering. (And an extra !!! for getting my Charlotte York reference!)

~Laura June 4, 2010 at 4:25 pm

Great list! Cam Jensen! My daughter was obsessed with her during K and 1st grade. That just brough back some great memories. So that is my !!!. Thanks, Ck and knock em dead at your show!
.-= ~Laura´s last blog ..The Dash =-.

Country-Fried Mama June 4, 2010 at 4:41 pm

The diaper trick is genius and I feel a little foolish that I never thought of that.

And I deserve that extra glass of sangria you have up there. Thank goodness for the end of this damn week.
.-= Country-Fried Mama´s last blog ..You Capture: Best photo of my week =-.

Amy @ Never-True Tales June 4, 2010 at 5:24 pm

I had some !!! in my week, and some ??? and some @&*#&. All I can say is, I’m going to need that white sangria recipe, m’kay?
.-= Amy @ Never-True Tales´s last blog ..Here’s looking at you, kid. =-.

ck June 5, 2010 at 2:41 pm

Embracing the need for White Sangria = !!! (Welcome to the club, Amy.)

Maria June 4, 2010 at 7:50 pm

Truly, I had never thought of a diaper to wipe down wet playground equipment! What a great idea!

I am sure that you will be fabulous in the performance! How exciting!

Linked up my entry, but can’t find it…Wonder where it went?
.-= Maria´s last blog ..!!! for June 4, 2010 =-.

A Reluctant Mom June 4, 2010 at 8:01 pm

First of all, ANY sangria is heavenly. Second, as the mom who (hold on, I’m perching myself on a soap box and patting myself on the back at the same time, which requires concentration) potty trained her second child in ONE DAY, I give you this link to help you along (because, let’s face it: changing diapers sucks):

http://areluctantmom.blogspot.com/2007/04/potty-power.html

Second, if you ever want to put me in my place (away from tooting my own horn, that is), just read the new blog (Stuff My Kids Tell Me) to see that my kids totally suck and I’m the reason. :)

ps: you’ll notice I said I potty trained the second child in one day. The first was my practice child, and I totally f*(&ed that one up.
.-= A Reluctant Mom´s last blog ..Sing Me A New Song =-.

Kelly June 4, 2010 at 8:14 pm

Okay, I have to say this first: Your daughter and my daughter should NEVER be alone together. Between the ginas and chinas, they’d be t-r-o-u-b-l-e.

Also, how cool that you womaned up at didn’t let a little intimidation stop you at the read-through. You’ll be awesome!

Sarah June 4, 2010 at 9:32 pm

“The kind of crazy I figured fell out of a minivan packed with boys.”

Yep. That kind of crazy. I know it too well. And it DOES fall out of the van, and so do they. And all I can do is try to keep up. And keep looking for the !!!
.-= Sarah´s last blog ..!!! =-.

Jane June 4, 2010 at 10:48 pm

Looks like I’m too late to call dibs on the extra sangria glass. :( But finding new uses for unused diapers? I am sooo there!
.-= Jane´s last blog ..Jane Readjusts Her Halo And Sets The Record Straight =-.

Tiffany June 5, 2010 at 8:36 am

Ok, your girls couldn’t be cuter. I love their minds and the accessories. And I’m so excited for you and hubby!!! I’m going to make my little !!! thing and get started this week…it’s the 1st week of summer so I may need to force some !!! into my life!!
.-= Tiffany´s last blog ..Just a little attention =-.

The Curious Cat June 5, 2010 at 5:12 pm

Lovely entry! I love the way you write…so funny! Your daughters are so delightful too! xxx
.-= The Curious Cat´s last blog ..Madrid and Zamora =-.

Mama Zen June 5, 2010 at 5:14 pm

The polite declination of potty training cracked me up!
.-= Mama Zen´s last blog ..Wanna Try, Mama? =-.

Unknown Mami June 5, 2010 at 11:05 pm

I would love to see you in that show!
.-= Unknown Mami´s last blog ..Fragmented Fridays =-.

Unknown Mami June 5, 2010 at 11:05 pm

P.S. You are a real performer.
.-= Unknown Mami´s last blog ..Fragmented Fridays =-.

Hear Mum Roar June 6, 2010 at 12:48 am

Aw, what a gorgeous detective!
.-= Hear Mum Roar´s last blog ..Remembering the birth of my son =-.

Rudri Patel June 6, 2010 at 12:51 am

Love the sangria and love the recipe that you included. My !!! moment – Momalom picked my post on Happiness as one that moved them. I was so honored. My daughter’s first swimming lesson made me !!!. Her journey down the slide in unchartered territory made me !!!.

I absolutely love this. Thanks so much for inspiring me to think about my happiness. It helps. More than you will ever know.
.-= Rudri Patel´s last blog ..My Sister =-.

theUngourmet June 7, 2010 at 1:10 am

Diapers are so multi-purpose! The sangria looks perfect! Best of luck with the show!! Wish I was there!

Jen June 8, 2010 at 11:15 am

I cannot believe I am on kid number three and have just now learned the secret to making wet playgrounds accessible. Also, white sangria. I am on it. Wowza.
.-= Jen´s last blog ..Mid-Disaster =-.

faemom June 10, 2010 at 11:29 pm

Did I just read a possible Gina Rule?!
.-= faemom´s last blog ..Chasing time =-.

Casey June 15, 2010 at 3:58 pm

I’m pretty sure that the ice in my drink has melted by now but thanks for the offer. I’m totally stealing that diaper/slide idea. Genius.
.-= Casey´s last blog ..Random Tuesday Thoughts: Floaters And Angry Looks And Sometimes Both =-.

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